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We may be afraid, but we're going to do it anyway, by Bishop Carlye Hughes

7/23/2025

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Bishop Hughes speaks candidly about a challenge many of us face but rarely name: fear. Whether it's fear of speaking up, taking action, or even praying, she reminds us that fear doesn't disqualify us from God's call – it’s often part of the journey – and she encourages us to “do it anyway... and do it afraid.” (Time: 5:49 | Read the transcript.)
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This is Bishop Hughes in the Diocese of Newark, and I want to talk with you about fear, which is something I’ve been hearing quite a lot about from people around the diocese and around the community. I’ve been hearing it in general for a while these days, and it’s the fear that keeps people from doing the thing that they feel that God is calling them to do. Most often, where I hear it is people say, “I’m afraid to say anything, because if I say something, it’s going to upset the situation I’m in. It’s going to upset the relationships that I’m in. I’m afraid to do anything. I don’t want to do anything that causes some kind of harm or that makes it worse. I’m afraid to be in a situation where I might get into trouble myself.”
“I’m afraid” – someone has said to me, more than one person has said to me – “I’m afraid to even pray at this point, because I don’t know that I am a very good prayer. I don’t know that I have the right words to say. Maybe other people who are stronger at praying should be the ones doing the praying at this point.”
Every time someone has talked to me about their fear, what they have really been saying to me is, “I feel called by God to do something, but I’m so nervous that I’ve talked myself out of doing it.”
I was thinking about this, and this weekend, it suddenly came to me. I remembered a sermon that I heard at my own first ordination, when I was ordained to the transitional diaconate before becoming a priest. It was the Reverend Teddy Brooks who preached, she is a priest in the Diocese of New York. She was a priest there then, and she still is today. And she preached about fear, and she was specifically talking to us as newly ordained people and saying, “It is going to be normal that you will be afraid. You’re going to be afraid you’re making a mistake, you’re going to be afraid of taking a risk, you’re going to be afraid of your own shadow half the time because you’re afraid you’re going to do it wrong. It’s normal to be afraid when you’re doing something new. It’s normal to be afraid when you’re taking a risk. And the way God is able to do something is you go with your fear and with God, and you do it anyway. You do it afraid.”
I remember those words, and from time to time, they come back to me. “You do it anyway, and you do it afraid.” They’ve stayed with me. And I was thinking this weekend when I remembered that you can go all through scripture and see these stories. I’ll just share two with you, Moses and Mary. Moses, face to face with God, and God says directly to Moses, “Go back to Egypt and save my people.” And Moses is afraid, and he doesn’t want to go, but he goes anyway. He does it afraid. He does it anyway, and God is able to do this wonderful work of freeing people who had been held captive. I think about Mary, the mother of Jesus, being told by the angel that she is going to bring the Savior of the world into being, and she sits there, not understanding, wondering, afraid, how can this be happening to me? And she does it anyway. She does it afraid.
In my own life, I’m so grateful to the Sisters of Saint Mary of Namur, who moved to Texas when I was a little girl, specifically to start an integrated school. Not a school for black children or Mexican children or white children, but a school for all children. It was the first. Schools were not integrated, they were segregated in Fort Worth at that time. And that is where I learned how to read and where I learned how to study. And I think about those sisters being the first to do something like that. I imagine that they were afraid, and they did it anyway. They did it afraid.
Dear ones, you have got to know that this is our time. This is our time where God is calling us into things that are going to feel really bold and are going to require courage and going to require bravery. But you have got to know that if God is calling you to speak up for someone else’s justice and for their right care in the world, if you do it anyway, and do it afraid even, God will do something with it. When you stand with someone as their friend, protecting them and making sure that they have their rights observed and that they have adequate legal representation, you may be afraid, but when you do it anyway, and when you do it afraid, God will be in it with you.
And most certainly whatever words you offer in prayer, even if you are absolutely clear with all your heart that you are inadequate, that you don’t have the right words to pray, that whatever words you utter in prayer when you do it anyway and when you do it afraid – especially when you do it afraid – God is there and is listening and is acting upon your prayer.
This is the time we live in, a time where we’re going to step into those, as we say in this diocese, those bold acts of justice and faith and love. We may be afraid, but we’re going to do it anyway.
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Addressing political issues from a Christian perspective- By Bishop Carlye Hughes

7/11/2025

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"We can't look at the real worries of the world and say, 'I'm not going to pay any attention to those because they're political,'" says Bishop Hughes. Referencing Matthew 25, where Jesus says, "Whenever you did it for the least of these you did it for me," she suggests that instead we ask ourselves, "How is God calling us to support people?" (Time: 5:31 | Read the transcript.)​
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This is Bishop Hughes in the Diocese of Newark, and once again, I’m not in the Diocese of Newark. I was last week, but not when I taped and again, this week, I’m on the road. I’m headed to spend a week with the sisters at the Order of Saint Helena. I’m their Episcopal visitor, and annually, I go and spend time with them.
Traveling to get there has given me some time to think and think about the needs of our parishes, the needs of our congregations, the needs of the individual people, whether they are laity, deacons, clergy, and even bishop. What are the things that we need to be doing on Sunday morning, and to be thinking about and hearing about on Sunday morning. One of the things I’m pretty positive of is that at every one of our churches in the diocese, there were probably prayers for what happened at Camp Mystic, all the flooding around there that hurt those young girls, and then all the ancillary flooding – it wasn’t just the camp – and then more rain on the way there. I am sure that that made its way into all the prayers. I am guessing that there were also prayers of thanksgiving, for healing, for safety, for things that we’ve been wanting or needing. And I am pretty certain that in many of our churches, there was preaching very much linked to what was heard in the gospels, but giving people a chance to think through what is going on in the United States and in the world.
There’s this tendency to think that when we engage with these things theologically, that somehow that’s political, and I really do want to address that today. It may sound political to you because we’re talking about things like immigration, we’re talking about health care, we’re talking about taxes, kind of across the board, where do those who make the least and in those who make the most, how are they taxed? We’re talking about those things because they affect our day-to-day life. They affect our life just as much as the news we hear from the doctor, or if your job is secure or not, or that you’re praying for – trouble in the life of somebody that you know, or in your own relationships. That we take all of those things on because they are part of our life, and we believe that God is speaking to us about who we are, to be in those things. So I really do want you to reframe how you’re hearing sermons right now. That if that button in you is pressed where you think, Oh, hey, that’s political. I’m going to ask you to, at that very moment, say, All right, I know I’m thinking it’s political, but how is this Christian? How am I supposed to think about something that I’m trained to think about politically? How am I supposed to think about that as a person of faith?
This is our challenge right now. We can’t look at the real worries of the world and say, I’m not going to pay any attention to those because they’re political. That’s not how this works. When you read Matthew 25, when you hear Jesus talking about the ones who fed him, who clothed him, who helped him out of prison, who helped him with a place to stay, and the people said to him, When did we do that? And he said, Whenever you did it for the least of these you did it for me. So that notion that taking care of the least, taking care of those who are the most harmed, taking care of those who are without power or who have been trampled over by other people who have more power, for us to be asking ourselves, How is God calling us to support people? What are we supposed to do as a parish? How do we help people with a medical debt that is bound to come? How do we help people observe their rights? We actually do have rights written into law and into the Constitution of the United States. How do we help people observe their rights? How do we make sure that people are treated with dignity and with respect. Those are all Christian activities. Those are all faithful activities.
And my hope is that if you did not hear a sermon like that, that you will talk to the preacher and ask, How am I supposed to address these things, and let them know you’d like to hear it on Sunday morning. And for those of you who did hear that on Sunday morning, please thank your preacher, because it is a challenging thing to be a preacher, and to know you have to take on tough issues that you’re going to – no matter what you say – somebody is going to judge them as being political, and when all you can think is, Did you hear the Gospel message this morning. So please, thank them for giving that message. And for all of us in these times that we’re in, we have a calling, just like we had a calling all through COVID, it is to love our neighbors. That has not gone away, it’s only become more important.
God bless you. God bless your thinking. And know that as you decide how you are going to serve God and God’s people, God is guiding your way.


On the flooding in Texas and how you can help

In response to the natural disaster and the resulting tragic loss so many lives, Bishop Hughes has asked the following: "I urge all churches to take up a special collection this week and offer prayers for the victims, their families, communities, and first responders. Collections may be sent to the Episcopal Diocese of West Texas, which has established a fund to provide assistance through their churches in the affected area."
Click here to donate online now.
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